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I have just discovered your panty page and I must tell you that I am surprized at the sheer numbers of letters about panties. As...More
Dear V and O I was delighted to read your new column in my most favorite site on the net. I have been locked in an...More
I am a 49 year old man who has been wearing nylon panties since age 4. You no doubt know what I've been through in...More
Dear Van and Olga, I have, as you can probably assume, a panty fetish. I have been wearing and playing with panties since I was about...More
I think the possibilities of running your new column, Van & Olga are endless. I have tried to understand my panty fetish for a long...More
Dear Olga, I am a 39 year old black man. I have NOT met any men in person (that I know of) that ENJOY the...More
(Nice use of our panty brands names for Van and Olga! Here's a letter for them.) Dear V & O: I have been stealing and borrowing...More
Dear Van & Olga: Just wanted to say how great it is to have a forum such as yours to talk about the joy of panties....More
From: Pat To: LINGERIE LOVERS Subject: destined for hell Hi, Well where should I begin. I want to thank you for having a great site and...More
Dear Van, I have been obsessed with panties since I was 10 years old. At first I put the panties on and worn them, I got...More
Wow! What a great column. For years I kept this secret, but I first wore a pair of panties when I was 7. My 13...More
Dear Van, I like bra and panties and with them on since I was a kid. Sometimes I feel like crossdressing and hang out. I admire...More
Lately I have this recurring fantasy: You and I are in your van/car parked somewhere. Both of us are panty collectors, and we're looking at each...More
From: "The Roberts" Subject: How do I live with/accept hubby's panty fettish??? Date: Wed, 28 Jul 1999 20:42 I am a 35 year old woman married to a...More
Van is a lifelong panty-lover with a degree in Counseling Psychology. For years he wondered if he would ever understand his attraction to undies. According to Van, he never really has. He considered and ultimately rejected psychoanalytic and psychological interpretations of deviance. Eventually he came to see it an innocent yet complex form of sexual imprinting. At a certain point Van decided it was an O.K., even desirable inclination and never looked back.
Van comments, "I am very interested in how other panty lovers attempt to either integrate or hide their panty interest from their wives, lovers, or girlfriends. I believe that the more secretive one is the more compulsive a habit becomes. Sharing this most intimate attraction and desire with a loved one on the other hand offers the possibility of genuine acceptance, better sex, and a stronger relationship. Having tried both approaches and varying degrees of openness about it, I would like to share some of what I've learned. I want to celebrate panty love and help others (including couples) have fun with it without feeling guilty or weird."
Olga is Van's partner and also has a degree in Counseling. Olga has enjoyed very satisfying sex with Van for the many years of their relationship. Still, she was initially quite puzzled when she realized that her undies held a particular fascination for him. Gradually, over time, she understood that their sexual fulfillment and his propensity were not mutually exclusive, and found ways to incorporate his interests with hers. Olga comments, "Still, there are some aspects that both bewilder, and, at times, trouble me. I look forward to sharing my viewpoints with interested readers and, perhaps, their partners, offering my own unique experience and suggestions."
"If your fondness for panties is a concern for you or for someone you care about, you have a question, or just want to share your story with someone, drop us a line. Olga and I may not always agree with one another, but we pledge to tell it the way each of us sees it."
—Van and Olga
During the latter period of my correspondence with "Van", he revealed to me that he was suffering from leukemia, and was trying to beat it with a combination of traditional and holistic methods. Alas, I lost contact with him quite some time ago... and I fear the worst. His sage advice survives him and is valuable even today.
Bill, hoping for the best...
Thanks, Van (& "Olga")
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